NO argument here by gosh.
It sure does sound like you got THE ONE. It amazes and astounds some when they hear of flowers at non-Hallmarked moments, a simple brush on the behind when he passes by. Or when once in a while you get that look that says it all. I understand stresses and who's share of this or that gets overlooked at times. When it seems like you are the only one doing----ANYTHING. But unlike the ladies of today, we made our inflections, did the dirty work and got over it. Today it seems as though even the slightest of these bumps is cause for a split. I would say that at 20 years, we had gotten over most of the relationship changes forced upon the family by society's taffy rending, and feel sorry for the youngsters of today and tomorrow. But as you put it (so well), ladies take note of what Roe has to say. Go slow, be pointed and hold out for the best for you. My father used the puppy syndrome analogy. Like the myriad of prints we share in difference, we each choose our puppies as well. I like the little runt at the far end of the box, reserved, shy, quiet and sad looking. Martin likes the bounding huskier laddie with all the energy and so on. We all select our puppies in a different way. The lady of today vying for true love, needs to search as you say. If all else fails, stay in school, wait a while and you'll just know him when he falls for you too.
Happy Valentines Day!
God Bless.